just wanted to say thank you to anyone who has commented on this poem. I am glad you have been debating amongst yourselves.
It was never my intention to try and tell people how to live their lives. I was just offering my opinion.
Also I wanted to make it clear that at no point do I say the subject of the poem is female.
This was written with young people in mind.
I am not 'slut-shaming' as a few people have said. I had never even heard that term lol.
As far as I am concerned people can and will do as they please. I am just aware that sometimes as a young person it is not always easy to remain a virgin. I wanted this to highlight that it is infact ok